
You deserve to feel in control of your life.
This space is for men and women stuck in unproductive, hurtful relationships—often shaped by past trauma that still lingers. Here, you’ll find education, support, and personal insights to help you break cycles and build a life that feels lighter.
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"Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, have to to be a life sentence."
Peter A. Levine
Why I Started This Community & Am Writing My Book (launching 8/1/25)
Author Patricia A. Grenelle, PsyD
For too long, childhood trauma has remained in the shadows—misunderstood, minimized, and masked. But its effects don’t disappear with time. They echo through our relationships, our health, our sense of self.
There is hope through understanding the effects of complex trauma. There is no reason for you to maneuver through life feeling controlled, gaslighted, lied to, or like a bad situation is your fault. This community is here to help you get started.
In We Were A Nice, Normal Family (my upcoming book), I share my personal journey through trauma and recovery to help others feel less alone—and more empowered. This story is for anyone who's ever questioned their worth, felt gaslighted, or wondered why life feels harder than it should. There is a reason. And there is a way forward.


My Upcoming Book
We Were A Nice, Normal Family: A Memoir of Trauma and Recovery
In We Were A Nice, Normal Family, I share my personal journey through trauma and healing to help others feel seen, validated, and hopeful. If you’ve ever questioned your worth or felt stuck in cycles you can’t explain—this story is for you.
Start your journey toward understanding and recovery.
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"I have come to the conclusion that human beings are born with an innate capacity to triumph over trauma. I believe not only that trauma is curable, but that the healing process can be a catalyst for profound awakening - a portal opening to emotional and genuine spiritual transformation."
Peter A. Levine